Death In The Family

It always hurts to hear of a death in the family. Grandpa's (Dad's side) passing away from a heart attack was a suprise to most of us. However, at the age of 85, as my Dad says, we have been thinking of it for a while.

Looking at it positively, it does bring our family together...Dad told us stories of Grandpa in his youth (he was a pioneer of women's underwear in Hong Kong....yes I do learn something new every day!) and of his devotion to his kids, sending them all that he earned so they could get through university. It ultimately gets repaid, as his kids (ie my dad and my uncles/aunts) have looked after him for the last 20 years since his retirement. Dad said that he didn't have much invested, but I think his investment in his kids was very wise.

The suddenness has made my Dad think about his work-life balance, and what is really important for him, and that is a good thing. It has made me think that it's time to call up my Grandma (Mum's side) in Hong Kong, and to reconnect with family, cause you never know what's going to happen tomorrow. As for me, I have some regrets that it was about 4 months since I spoke to him, but we were never that close. I just want to make sure Dad is ok.

Dad sent an email around, here's an excerpt that I found quite touching:

It is always a sad thing to lose a parent and it marks the ending of an era. Father had moved from China to Hong Kong and then to Canada and his children and grandchildren are now living all over the world. I think he will be proud to be the head of a family tree that valued hard work and family ties. He will be remembered as a loving father and dedicated husband .

Grandpa - Passed Away 1 September 2006 - R.I.P.

Damn! four cheap calls already:

Condolences to you and your family Big Guy. Your Grandad sounds like an honourable man and am sure his legacy will live on
lmm - 04 September '06 - 14:43

Kev, I'm very sorry to hear mate. But it sounds like your Granddad has left his mark on a lot of people and his memory and legacy continues to live on strongly.

And yes, a death in the family always reminds us to be good to the people we still have.
Anton - 04 September '06 - 23:11

My thoughts are with you and your family KC.

Losing your grandparents are one of the hardest things to have to deal with in life. I identify to the words of your father, for my father ushered similar words when my grandmother passed away some five years ago.

His memory, I'm sure, will live in your heart, and surely if only in spirit through you, passed on to the next generation.
alvina - 07 September '06 - 12:31

sorry to hear it, dude.

RC
randomcow (email) - 10 September '06 - 19:27