Wednesday, 15 July 2009

Belated Birthday Review

I did a search on "birthday" on my site to see what goodies came up. Quality posts!

Obviously things have changed a lot since last year, let's look at some "age-changing" factors:

Things making me feel older:
- Heavier drinking has made my liver older.
- General fitness has declined. However, having just gotten a bike (fixed gear!) I'll be looking to turn this one around
- More responsibility at work, more engagement with global teams, talking to more senior staff
- Living by myself.
- Thinking about my next step in life, and working out the future

Things making me feel younger:
- A somewhat more "lax" attitude to responsibility, or rather, saying "yes" to more things.
- Having no savings (due to moving costs, lease break fees, excessive holidaying) has made my bank account younger.
- Getting told at dance parties "I thought you were mid-20s!". Must be the dance moves.
- Getting booked in LA by Korean cougars.

So overall I'm about square! That sounds about right. Perhaps the Asian gene of looking "ageless" applies not just physically but mentally and emotionally as well.

A quote from last year's post still applies:

I've heard that men are in their prime during their 30's, as they have got their shit together and are really making a decent contribution to themselves and to society at large. Perhaps this birthday milestone is just a sign along the road that I am traveling, an acknowledgment that things are now coming together and that I am finally starting to be a wise man.

3 comments:

chak chung said...

Confucious Book2.4

The master said "At fifteen I set my heart on learning;at thirty i took my stand;at forty I was never in two minds;at fifty I understood the Decreee of Heaven;at sixty my ear was attuned; at seventy I followed my heart's desire without overstepping the line"

Baba

Mark said...

Fixed Gear! You are so mainstream
http://media.smh.com.au/national/national-news/barebones-bike-the-latest-fix-647025.html

Kev said...

Wise words baba, thanks.

haha Mark, that's right I'm a pop follower!

Of course I still have breaks on my one cause I think people without breaks are just asking for trouble.