Thursday, 4 August 2005

Working For Work's Sake

I heard recently that there is a family out there that makes $200,000 from government benefits. There are 6 in the family, and they are living it up (I'm assuming it's tax free?), chilling out at home and playing the XBox.

One of the major issues with unemployment is the lack of financial security. With "The Solid Facts: The Social Determinants of Health" paper from the World Health Organisation in Europe (it's amazing the stuff I read now for my work), the authors have stated that unemployment brings both mental and physical illnesses.
But what if that financial insecurity was removed, as is the case with this family. They are earning a decent buck.

Life is grand...or is it?

At much as we would like to be ladies and men of leisure, I think there is an urge in all of us to have a meaningful job. A job that we feel utilises our skills, encourages responsilibty and and promotes creativity and problem solving. There is a buzz from achieving, no matter what the task may be. We look forward to our reviews, not just to complain about a pay rise (which we all do!) but to see if the stuff we do is making a difference.

Do other people feel this is true, or am I off on the wrong path?
Would an extra 40 hours of relaxation make me a happier person?

Damn! six cheap calls already:

I think for most of us who want to achieve even a teeny microscopic amount of something/anything with their lives, a career of coach-potatoing will drive them certifiably insane. Particularly for our social clique, most of whom were raised in decent environments and privileged enough to receive a solid education. To squander it away is an injustice to all of that. A holiday is only a holiday if you have something to take a break from.

A job confirms your self-worth in a sense. Like you said, we all like to know that what we're doing is making a difference, that we're being constructive, not just taking up space. The politics, pain and endless biatching at work makes life interesting.
beckster (link) - 04 August '05 - 13:32

I've been off work for almost two months now. I don't really want to go back, to be honest. I couldn't really say I'm not adding to people's lives. I'm a funny guy, I make people laugh.

RC (the clown)
randomcow - 10 August '05 - 09:44

if you can keep yourself busy in your time off (e.g. travelling the world, surfing the net, house sitting or xbox) i don't think many people would not it back. Who's gonna knock back free-money? or who'd knock back a job with less work/responsibilities and more money? not me :)
Dessy (link) - 11 August '05 - 18:21

How much net surfing and XBox playing can one do?
As with all things, it's all a balance....although those all-nighter Halo events were fantastic!

I don't know though, having less responsibilities makes a job less interesting.
JookBoy (link) - 12 August '05 - 13:19

I think it comes down to your personal needs.

There are 6 basic needs we, as humans, all share -

1 Certainty
2 Uncertainty/Variety
3 Significance
4 Connection/Love
5 Growth
6 Contribution.

Addictions arise when people satisfy 3 or more of these needs by committing a various act eg smoking.

Needs 5 and 6 are what it sounds like people fear losing if they do not work or accept reduced workplace responsibilities. As most people reading this site are "achievers" the thought of not growing (#5) or not contributing beyond themself (#6) is unattractive.

People who don't like getting up for work every day and additionally don't like the thought of NOT working every day clearly value their need for Variety. It doesn't matter what they do, as long as some uncertainty about their day exists.

Surely there are alternate ways to meet these needs other than work, right?
Taipan (link) - 14 August '05 - 10:14

dude I haven't worked for more than three months now and I'm still not sick of it. I start work this Monday as a porter at the Hilton Hotel up in Otaru (near Sapporo) just in time for ski season :) I wouldn't say I'm not looking forward to it, but the time off has been great.

RC
randomcow - 26 September '05 - 08:34

Friday, 29 July 2005

Performance Review

Had my performance review the other day. Performance reviews are a strange thing, it's like a year of my life condensed into an hour meeting. Things that I don't even remember committing to pop up, and I'm at a loss to explain what actually happened.

I didn't do as well as I would have like, to be honest. Missed out on a few goals, but the realisation that came through from this session was that money plays a part at all levels of the company. I consider myself to still be a youngling (where do Star Wars script writers come up with these words??) at my company, so making money for the company is not something high in my priorities (I'm in an internal service area). Obviously you watch your costs, but the need to actively bring in money for IT is a new concept, and something to bring for the next year.

The other thing to bring for the next year is passion and enthusiasm. Much like that "Fish!" book (Yui, I think I still have your book!), it seems like I'm great when there's exciting things to do (and perform quite well), but mundane tasks make me want to procrastinate :)
So the answer is less surfing the web, batch checking of emails (you know that if you check your email once a minute, you will create 500 interruptions??), and just focussing on the tasks at hand. The other option is to just give me exciting projects and I'll be the bomb!

Did anyone have any fun reviews this year?

Only one cheap call:

mine was along the lines of... fantastic effort this past year... above and beyond... great feedback from all your managers and clients... unfortunately we can't afford to give you a raise... but keep up the good work
ding! (email) (link) - 31 July '05 - 15:01

Wednesday, 13 July 2005

The Best Looking Man In The World...

..is obviously not me :)

Normally, this would most likely be the end of this post.
However, as a friend sent me an e-mail and asked me to write about it, so I will.
With comments like "YUMMMMMMMMMMOOOOOOOOO" and "I can see why he won", I leave it to the female (and interested male) parts of the audience of this blog to make their own judgements.

Modern Day Adonis

Personally, here are the points that I note about this:

  • Broad shoulders
  • Symmetrical face
  • Funky hair
  • Chiselled jaw-line
  • OK, I admit it...a great smile
So I would say he's quite good looking, but the "best in the world"?
Now, what makes him so special? Is it the combination of the above features? Is it the way he moves those hands? Is it the way he never quite looks at the camera?
Is it the promise of a fun time in those eyes? Am I becoming just a bit gay??

*cough* excuse me.

Anyways...enlighten me! :)

P.S. There is a guy offering 10 large for someone to find him a wife. Talk about a spotter's fee!

Damn! six cheap calls already:

someone save me from drowning in my own drool... im referring to the modern day adonis of course (not the 10k man)... :D
Bei (email) - 13 July '05 - 17:12

bei, i remember you mentioning to me last nite, that mr adonis was better looking than any guy you know. i'm just thinking... maybe all the guys you know are just ugly *insert cheshire cat grin here*
reenie (email) - 14 July '05 - 13:10

i said he was BETTER than any guy i knew... not that the guys i knew were ugly... if i say that conor was WORSE than the adonis, does that make him fugly? it's your call...
Bei (email) - 14 July '05 - 19:06

DAMN! he's hottttttttttttt
but ben's hotter .... of course *wink wink*

Anyone got his number??
addy - 15 July '05 - 05:07

I see a better man anytime I look in the mirror. *cough*. Yes really.
PeeDz - 16 July '05 - 16:51

He's hot - I'd give him one.

(and he looks like the kind of guy that would take one, too :P )
randomcow (email) - 17 July '05 - 05:45

Tuesday, 5 July 2005

27 Is A Good Year...

..or so I have heard from numerous colleagues. "It's about that time where you like who you are, you know a lot more about yourself, and in a sense you live for yourself." Wise words, I thought, as I move into the beginning of the "late-20s", where maturity settles in, and yet you haven't quite gotten to the stage of dreading the big 3-0, but you can see it in the horizon.

So do I like myself? Yes and no. I like the fact that I'm becoming better recognised at work, especially with this secondment out to the business. I had a great review, and am looking forward to putting some big runs on the board this year. I have a wonderful girlfriend, kept in touch with most of my close friends, and even bought a house :) I'm still active, taken up new sports, and am learning Mandarin (again!)

Yet I do not know if I'm striving in the right direction. Am I doing what is the best for me? I can't honestly say that I love waking up in the morning to go to work.

Reading 'Tuesdays with Morrie', and there are lessons in the book that we should all share.

"Devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning".

I think the meaning sometimes slips away from me...it would be good to feel it more often. Volunteer work, anyone? :)

Damn! four cheap calls already:

ah smeggit - I forgot your b'day. Well, I remembered it a couple of days before and emailed you about it, if you remember *g*. Anyway, happy belated birthday.

I have heard that 27 is a great age for guys because the clock ticking inside all your female peers gets louder all of a sudden, and next thing you know you've got 4-5 girlfriends!

Of course, I'd never dream of "doing it" with any of the girls in my peer group.

RC
randomcow (email) - 06 July '05 - 10:39

But you might consider it if you were in Japan? :)
JookBoy (link) - 06 July '05 - 15:49

Devote yourself to a more meaningful cause. My feet need a rubbing :)

Wouldn't mind a bit of loving either...
PeeDz - 09 July '05 - 19:29

does that offer still stand?

RC
randomcow - 14 July '05 - 11:42

Wednesday, 15 June 2005

Gold Coast Weekend

If there's one thing about Gold Coast that is quality, it's the fact that the weather is nice all year round. We went up during the long weekend, and it's still 25 degrees up there. No wonder people want to retire in the Sunshine state.

The wedding (my brother in law's younger brother) was nice and sweet. Wonderful church (it had this glass pane looking out to the river), great food, and even had some fireworks! To be honest, you would think fireworks are a bit too much, but it actually works quite nicely, especially as a backdrop to your glamour photo shots.

The best thing about the trip was undoubtedly the fact that we as a family went up together. We haven't all travelled as a group for two years, and it's times like these that you can really bond with your family.

I was amazed and impressed to hear that one of my mum's ambitions is to work for Medicins Sans Frontieres, although the irony is her fear that because she actually is a doctor, they might send her somewhere dodgy, and she doesn't really want to travel. Still, I am sure they have training positions for people with her experience.

I had a good chat to my dad regarding my career and where it should take me. I think he's (finally!) worked out that I won't become an accountant :)

Also had some quality time with my sister before she leaves with her husband to go to Vancouver for a 18 month secondment (for his training).

It's trips like these that helps the family stay strong. I always wonder just how much different a person would be without their family influences...

Good times.

Damn! three cheap calls already:

oh darn it, i was actually looking for a good accountant to do my tax this year.

Poo.....
addy (link) - 19 June '05 - 15:48

I can recommend you my dodgey Asian accountant Addy, he's a whiz. Don't look in my direction!

Agree that families are truly the salt of the earth, nothing brings that fact home more than when they're not around fussing over you anymore. It's sad that families are strewn all around the world now, but hey, on the bright side there are free couches to bunk on all around the globe!!

Hopefully your two baby nieces stay super cute.
beckster (link) - 20 June '05 - 10:23

babe, gimme his name hahahaha actually i mite do my own again this year, but definitely next year i need an accountant.

kc, i miss my family :( im rather homesick actually. I like being fussed over! heheh doesnt everyone? But yeah, becks, its awesome knowing theres a free bed in other cities :)
addy (link) - 22 June '05 - 16:00

Wednesday, 18 May 2005

International Friends

There has been (and continues to be) a spate of friends making the journey overseas. Whilst the majority are heading to the UK for some European lovin', there are others who have taken the Asia route, working from places like Singapore and Beijing.

Am I envious? Of course, I think that any overseas experience is something eye-opening, both in the people you meet and the cultures you encounter.
It's character building and shows you just what you are capable of, when faced with problems that you cannot rely on friends and family to assist with.
It helps bring out the more extroverted/social side of you, as you're forced to meet new people in the search for friendships that used to come so easily.
It shows you places and sights that you would never see in Australia, places so seeped in history that Sydney feels like it was born yesterday.

Within the next few years, that trip will be made. However, I would like to think that going over will help in some way to advance the career. I feel that I am past that age where I can go over and just stuff around. The hardest thing is going overseas blind, without the security of another job lined up. Maybe I am too risk-adverse!

To those that are leaving or are currently overseas, take care of yourselves. I hope that our friendships do not dim due to the distance. I am sure that you'll have a wonderful time. Find what you're looking for, and remember to save a spot for me on your couch when I come visit!

Damn! eight cheap calls already:

you're welcome any time kev...when we get a place and couch that is!!
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al - 26 May '05 - 00:38

Sorry Al, your cheap Mandarin call just doesn't cut it on this english website :)
JookBoy (link) - 26 May '05 - 05:54

dude, if it's any consolation I'm shit-scared about this Japan trip. That's despite my language skills, research into the country (hehehe), contacts (I know about 50 people over there already, mostly Japanese), savings, etc. In fact, I don't think anyone has ever been more prepared for an overseas adventure than I am right now! And yet I'm still scared (and excited of course) of the unknown.

Do it, dude. If you come to Japan you can crash at mine for as long as you want.

RC
randomcow - 08 June '05 - 11:19

having been there done that, one day it'll be nice to say i'm doing it again :)
alvina - 15 June '05 - 11:00

RC, I'm sure you're going to have an awesome time. Can I subscribe to your mailing list of activitiez? :)
Thanks for the offer for Japan, it's one of the many places to have to revisit.

Alvina, do it again!
JookBoy (link) - 15 June '05 - 15:35

well, I own the domain name randomcow.com so I'll probably be putting a blog or something on there. It will probably be slightly different style to a lot of the travel blogs out there though, though not too different to yours, where you have well-thought-out articles. Actaully, there will be well-thought-out essays, pictures, and stories of wacky adventures. Just have to make sure I find time to update it :)

RC
randomcow (email) - 24 June '05 - 09:22

Greetings from Vancouver! It's been 3.5 months since my departure and even though I miss home, the best thing about being overseas is knowing that so many of my friends aren't in Sydney anymore, so I'm not alone in this journey of self discovery.

Do look me up if you're ever in the area!
Wendy - 28 June '05 - 05:11

Thursday, 5 May 2005

For All The Bitter Souls Out There

Joelogon's Foolproof Guide to Making Any Woman Your Platonic Friend may just touch that nerve :)

Kudos to my good friend Peedz' remark: "Yeah well friends have sex too :P". Quality

Be sure to read the "Do's and Don'ts" page:
"DO create a web page that is vague enough to be relevant to the masses, yet specific enough so that the one, special platonic friend you've been carrying a torch for reads it, comes to her senses, and fulfills Fantasy #4"

Damn! three cheap calls already:

Well, that comment hasn't actually worked yet :(
PeeDz - 07 May '05 - 19:21

And here I was thinking the reason these girls call me at 1:00am sobbing about "that asshole" is because they *wanted* to have sex with me.

Oops.

RC
randomcow - 11 May '05 - 16:54

Is that what you did to this online forum to score the attention and affections of my wingwoman? Smooth man, smooth...
so - 21 June '05 - 16:38

Sunday, 24 April 2005

A New Level Of Communication

"Thanks for reading the book Dad, it means a lot to me."

With those words, I believe a new chapter in a a father/son relationship has begun.I'm sure all of us out there would know about the parent to child conversations you have, where the mum or dad asks the 20 questions, and you (as the child) answer back in one word answers. Even at our age, you still get the same things.

Of course, all of us want to share with our families, and to seek advice form our parents...they have experience there that is helpful on our own journey. What's annoying is the fact that we get shot down as soon as we voice an opinion or dream that may not conform to their expectations.

Me: Oh, I was thinking of trying some sales job
Dad: What the...? Why are you throwing away your IT skills? How are you going to get those skills? Who will hire you? Blah blah blah...

So after another one of these quality communication exchanges, I thought it would be a bold step to give my dad some reading. 7 Habits :) But only one very small section about "seeking first to understand, then be understood".To be honest, I wasn't expecting much. Parents have that ace up the sleeve, namely the "I'm too old to change" call, that there is no counter for. However, after coming back from volleyball training, Dad sat me down and said,

"I photocopied the pages, cause I want Mum to read it as well. It makes a whole lot of sense. I realise what I've been doing before, and I'm going to make an effort to not judge so quickly."

Amazing!

Damn! four cheap calls already:

don't go into the car sales business - we already got kevkev for cheapie cars! I think u should work in designer womens wear...i do need to some new clothes!
mushiejc (link) - 24 April '05 - 12:53

wow! i'm surprised it worked for you.

i tried passing the same book, and another to my parents yonks ago, and i got the "i'm too old to change", "i know i'm right", line as well.

glad to hear ur dad is humble and open minded to your suggestions
alvina - 24 April '05 - 17:00

Damn, it really worked on your dad?! Good story, I can imagine the "don't waste it" line like I was there :)
PeeDz - 27 April '05 - 20:11

What the...??! Sales??! Next thing you're gonna start studying medicine or something?

RC
randomcow - 02 May '05 - 11:04

Tuesday, 19 April 2005

Relationships & Productivity

I've come to the conclusion that being in a relationship positively ruins your productivity.

You're relaxing at home for a while, and bam! the whole day is gone. How does this happen?
Maybe (here comes a mushy call) you're enjoying your time together too much to notice, or it could be that you need to have the combined will of two people to get both asses into gear.

We have a "things to do" list, comprising of all sorts fo fun activities ie art galleries, cultural things, cooking, trips away, learning new hobbies etc.
However, all that goes out the window, with late wake-ups in the morning, bumming around the house, DVD watching (and cuddling hehe)...the list goes on.

Not that I'm complaining. In the end, it's all quality time, right? :-)

Damn! ten cheap calls already:

hee hee mushy call (that's me! :))

I agree QT is QT but QT outside the house is sometimes much needed after endless QT nights infront of the DVD! But then again you'll be 'complaining' about not enough in house DVD/snuggle QT nights when you're all activitied up!!
mushiejc (link) - 20 April '05 - 11:21

damn.
ue - 20 April '05 - 14:53

I'm pretty productive with my boyfriend, so who are you unproductive with JB??!!! =p
beckster (link) - 21 April '05 - 10:27

ah... but is the opposite.. ie, being too productive, any better??
bjee - 21 April '05 - 18:25

Bjee is right. What is productivity for the sake of productivity?

Btw, I'm loving single life atm :)
PeeDz - 23 April '05 - 19:28

agree with fellow commenters - no use being productive just for the sake of it.. cuddle time wins hands down over trying to achieve 101 things at once! But having said that, hafta give a shout out to my homie PeeDz... life on the singles cruiser is grand at the mo'!
lmm - 24 April '05 - 07:55

Maybe I always know that there is things to do. Relaxing for the sake of relaxing is not a strong point, although it should be addressed.

Yes, PeeDz, I know the single "XBox" life suits you to a tea :)
JookBoy (link) - 24 April '05 - 12:54

Yup, can't fight the chipping action.. finished Max Payne 2, nutting through GTA: Vice City atm :)
PeeDz - 27 April '05 - 20:10

Damn indeed.

What are you doing KC? If seems your gf has no issues with her levels of productivity. :)
ricegrains (link) - 29 April '05 - 14:34

I have the perfect strategy for making your day together more productive. All the chores that I should be doing all week (ironing, vacuuming, taking out garbage, etc) you postpone until she's at your place. Then all of a sudden it's "clean-up time". Together, of course.

My favourite is to say you're taking the garbage downstairs while she's ironing some shirts, and then duck off to the gym for an hour or so. 30 minutes on the bikes in front of V-channel and you'll be pumped full of testosterone, ready to rip her away from her ironing in a fit of passion.

The idea is to make it look like you're caring about her, while at the same time you're not letting her waste your time. So while she's vacuuming, call out something sweet, like "baby, you might have to take the end off when you clean behind the TV. It's hard to get to, you know." This shows you care, and you don't even have to look up from the computer screen.

Another thing that makes it look like you care is a little 1-minute massage for her when she's ironing. Because that's about how long it takes to get the syrup from the hotcakes (see below) off your fingers.

If you run out of things for her to do, you can always get her to make you some hotcakes with syrup! You've got the mix already in the cupboard, so she can't screw it up like she does the rest of her cooking. In the mean time you just continue looking up porn and calling out the occasional "careful, the pan gets hot you know" when you can hear she has just burnt herself.

RC

PS quick tip, is that when you're putting your case together to get her out of your house on Sunday morning, always *include* the hours that you spent asleep. Suddenly "we just spent 4 hours together" becomes "you know, i've already spent 12 hours with you baby. That's half a day. Imagine if I spent half a day everyday with you. That's half my life! I mean, it would be great and all baby and I love you and all that shit, but seriously, when would I have time to go to work? Yeah. Ok, so we'll do this again next week, right? You know where the bus stop is. Ok, bye."

RC
randomcow - 02 May '05 - 11:02

Wednesday, 6 April 2005

The Wonders Of Marketing

It's been a few weeks at the new job at St Marys, I'm starting to get a bit of a feel for it. The communities part of the job is not yet full steam ahead, so the expeereince is mostly on the marketing side.

I've been doing a lot of reading about marketing, and website usability, and demographics of the western Sydney region.
One particularly interesting reaserach I've been reading is about the art of marketing to females. Here is my quick analysis:

1. Emotive rapport building
- women process incoming messages on a far more emotive element than men
- men will recall facts and data, women recall much more emotional/human factors
- difference at different age groups
- the "emotional hit" is the issue

2. MSP (Multi-dimensional selling proposition)
- could be more important to USP (unique selling proposition)
- automatically relating the marketing message to different components of her life, whereas the male will evaluate on a single component. Hence need to appeal to all factors of her life.
- do not stereotype and pigeon-hole women

3. Community network
- the importance that women place on their network, feeling a sense of community
- provide mechanisms and the environment for women to connect to each other
- eg an online community
- tie yourself to an existing network or create its own network.
- "think constellation, not individual stars"

4. Open channels of feedback
- giving ownership of your brand to your female customers
- ie providing ideas, product dvelopment, suggestions
- the customers themselves become the promoters and networkers
- work on establishing a client advisory board
- utilise female collaboration as a story for further promotion

5. Referrals (Word-of-mouth)
- They can basically learn 100% of the product from their "inner circle" of female friends before they purchase.
- 73% of married women rate the relationships with their women of greater importance than their relationship with their husbands (talk about non-commitment! :P)
- Word-of-mouth becomes an exponential strategy
- Get them to refer by working out how to reward their referrals
- Reward the referral, rather than offering an up-front bribe ie surprise the female with the gift AFTER the referral has occurred, rather than before.

I wonder if this type of information can be integrated into how guys should approach relationships? It's all about marketing yourself, right? :-)

Damn! five cheap calls already:

So...does that mean you have a "constellation" of "stars" that you "network" with, with the referral rewards paid in full? :P
ricegrains (link) - 11 April '05 - 09:06

I will now sell more Lexus'. Thanks :P
PeeDz - 12 April '05 - 17:25

Good point Diddyz...I hope none of your competitors read your blog KC :)

I will also now proceed flog more deodorant :)
ricegrains (link) - 14 April '05 - 06:05

Yeah, these all-body sprays are just dodgy, especially if they are not diluted :)
JookBoy (link) - 19 April '05 - 13:43

I guess sometimes your product's reputation is so good that you don't have to go out there and market it.

RC
randomcow - 02 May '05 - 10:47