Wednesday, 6 August 2003

Back To The Crew

Feels like I never left it, which is quite sad, really!
But anyways, T and I have broken up. After 3 weeks *shakes head* of trying to get to know her, I just felt that there was no chemistry there. Phone calls were not that great, dinners were ok, but the sparks never flew. The three main criteria:

  1. Makes me laugh
  2. Passionate about something
  3. Independence
This makes me wonder....do encounters at a night club ever work? Is that just the wrong place to look? If I ever grind someone again, I should just leave it there? I needs more action at the bachelor pad! :P
Well, the great search continues...what happened to that chick from your work Bundies?

Damn! two cheap calls already:

sad to hear, kc! I know the boyz are happy to have you back in the crew - but when are we going to do that whole double date thing!! It always so close ... and then it falls to the way side.

one question i want to ask is - do you think you rush things? I mean can you get to know someone well enough in three weeks to know that it's not going to work?? From my own personal experience with jen, things went a lot slower at the start with dates and phone calls etc, but i didn't know at three weeks wether she was the one or not. and there were some pretty bad phone calls in that period too !

and yes i think nightclubs aren't the best place to look - it's all looks first and personality later ... why can't they have it all? I don't know. Where did you meet sus by the way? was she a night club hottie?

anyways - keep plugging along you champ. I'm sure there's more action round the corner for that bachelor pad of yours - is all action good action? ... rightio :)
Dessy - 07 August '03 - 09:26

"Do you rush things?" Possible, very possible. But I think I act on a lot of instinct...sometimes, you know that it's just not going to work. Of course, this instinct is based on priorities, commitments, general feeling. I wonder if I have more time in life (which could soon happen with the sale of Gap Games) that I would try harder?
JookBoy - 09 August '03 - 21:19

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